How to arrange or attend a funeral during the coronavirus


At a time when so many changes are affecting the way we all live, it’s important that you know what to do if you lose a loved one.

Whether you need to arrange a funeral or you’re attending one in the coming days, our frequently asked questions will tell you what you need to know during the Coronavirus lockdown.

If you don’t see your question listed, your local funeral team is on hand to help. Our ‘find a funeral director’ link at the top of this page will put you in touch with one of our helpful colleagues.


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Arranging the Funeral

How will the coronavirus pandemic affect me arranging a funeral for my loved one?

We are still able to arrange funerals.  We are helping families to do this over the telephone, by email or by post. Some of our funeral homes can offer meetings via FaceTime or Skype as well.

When you speak to us, we’ll talk you through everything you need to know, including what we can and can’t currently include in a funeral arrangement, while the coronavirus is affecting day to day life.

What hasn’t changed is our ability to offer you, your family and your loved one the care and compassion that we have always done.

Watch our short video on how funeral arrangements have adapted.

How can I register the death of a loved one?

You need to register a death within 5 days, including weekends and Bank Holidays. To do this, you will need the medical certificate from either the GP or the hospital doctor. Please speak to one of our colleagues if you are unsure or need any help to do this.

You can find your local Registry Office details at https://www.gov.uk/register-offices, and each location will have details of the current way that you can register a death.

How do I arrange a funeral service if I am self-isolating?

Please call us, and we’ll agree a convenient date and time with you to discuss the funeral arrangements. This will be carried out over the phone, or via FaceTime or Skype.

Our website contains several useful brochures that you can read before our phone call. We can then talk you through the options and decisions that need to be made.

We still have plenty of experienced, helpful colleagues on hand to help and support you and your family during this difficult time.

Will I need to come to the funeral home to make arrangements?

No. You should not visit us at this time.  Please telephone the funeral home, and we’ll agree a convenient date and time with you to discuss the funeral arrangements.  We’ll do this over the phone, or via FaceTime or Skype.

We’re supporting the social distancing guidance from the Government.  Therefore, please do not come to the funeral home while the coronavirus situation is affecting day to day life.

Our website contains several useful brochures that you can read before our phone call. We can then talk you through the options and decisions that need to be made.

We still have plenty of experienced, helpful colleagues on hand to help and support you and your family during this difficult time.

If I do need to come to the funeral home, what extra precautions are you taking during the coronavirus pandemic?

If we do ask you to come to the funeral home, this needs to be a visit from a maximum of 2 people from the same household. If either of you have any coronavirus symptoms, you must not attend. 

Our colleagues are all practising the Government guidance on social distancing, and we need you to do the same if we have asked you to come into our premises. Hand sanitiser will be provided for your use on entering our premises.

We’re keeping everyone safe with more frequent, regular cleaning of the funeral home. Our hygiene standards are excellent, along with the way we carefully carry out our duties.

Since the coronavirus started to affect daily life, we have provided our colleagues with additional personal protective equipment (PPE). You may see some of our team wearing this, from when we come to collect your loved one, right up to the day of the funeral.  

Will the funeral home close during the coronavirus pandemic?

No. We will still be on hand to support you and your family.

If we do ask you to come to the funeral home, this needs to be a visit from a maximum of 2 people from the same household. If either of you have any coronavirus symptoms, you must not attend. 

Our colleagues are all practising the Government guidance on social distancing, and we need you to do the same if we have asked you to come into our premises. Hand sanitiser will be provided for your use on entering our premises.

If a funeral home does have to close, due to Government guidance, we will make a decision in line with that; but we’ll keep any families affected by those changes informed.

Will my local crematorium close during the coronavirus pandemic?

Some local authority crematoria have stopped providing services.  When we telephone you to discuss the funeral arrangements, we can check if your local crematorium is still open and if there are any restrictions on services.

You can only visit a crematorium chapel if you have an arranged service that you are attending, with a maximum of 10 mourners at any service. The crematoria are not open for memorial tributes, the collecting or scattering of ashes or visiting the Remembrance Book room.

You are welcome to walk through the Bretby Crematorium grounds or garden of remembrance to remember a loved one, during the hours of 9am to 5pm, but you are asked to observe social distancing and to comply with the requests of the crematorium team.

Should Government guidance change, and the crematorium must close, then we will keep any families affected informed of those changes.

My loved one wanted to be buried, can this still happen, or will they have to be cremated?

We will check this for you, as it may vary based on the location of the cemetery.

If burials are permitted locally, then we can arrange this, if this is what you or your loved one wanted to happen. However, some cemeteries are restricting services to unattended burials only. When we discuss arrangements, we can confirm the current situation at your preferred location.

The situation continues to change, and we are following Government advice.  We will keep families up to date if the guidance changes once a funeral has been arranged.

Do I need to delay the funeral service until the Coronavirus crisis is over?

No, you should go ahead and have the funeral at the earliest possible date. It is not possible to delay a funeral service until the coronavirus is over, or the current lockdown restrictions are removed.

We will do our best to provide you with a choice on times and dates for services. We’ll work with you to find what works best for you and your family within those choices.

You may want to consider celebrating the life of your loved one with a memorial service at a later date. Please let us know when we discuss the funeral arrangements, and we will contact you when we can offer this service.

Can I visit my loved one if they have been diagnosed with coronavirus?

Yes.  We can organise a visit that will take place during our normal working hours, by appointment, with your loved one in their sealed coffin.  If Government guidance changes, we’ll let you know.

Only 2 family members from the same household should attend at a time.  This supports social distancing Government guidance and keeps you, your family and our colleagues safe. 

If a family member has a health concern or is from an at-risk group, such as their age, or if they are self-isolating with coronavirus symptoms, then they will not be permitted to visit. 

If your loved one passes away following a positive or suspected coronavirus diagnosis, then we will not be able to offer a visit with an open coffin.

Can I visit my loved one if they have not been affected by coronavirus?

Yes. We can organise a visit that will take place during our normal working hours, by appointment, which you can discuss when we make the arrangements with you.

Only 2 family members from the same household should attend at a time.  This supports social distancing Government guidance and keeps you, your family and our colleagues safe. 

If a family member has a health concern or is from an at-risk group, such as their age, or if they are self-isolating with coronavirus symptoms, then they will not be permitted to visit. 

Can I still follow our family’s religious customs?

At the moment, funerals can still follow religious customs. However, what we can and cannot do will depend on current government guidance.

As always, we want to support you and your family and to fulfil your wishes.  Please let us know your family’s preferences for religious customs when you make initial contact with us.


Services

Can I still have a limousine to take our family to the funeral service?

No, we are not able to operate our limousine service while coronavirus continues to affect day to day life. This is to ensure we can protect you and your family, as well as keeping our colleagues safe. 

We will continue to transport your loved one to the funeral service in a hearse.

Please discuss your transport needs with us when we make the funeral arrangements so that we are aware of any concerns while our limousine service is unavailable.

Can I still collect donations at the funeral?

No, we are unable to allow the collection of cash donations during the service.   

However, we can help you set up an online obituary or donation that allows family and friends to support a charity, cause or local organisation, as well as add a photo or light a candle in memory of your loved one.

Can florists still provide floral tributes?

Our florists have been closed until very recently, to support the Government’s view of essential and non-essential businesses.  However, our in-house florists are now on-hand, once again, to create beautiful, floral tributes which you can request as part of the funeral arrangements for a loved one. 

We’re still supporting social distancing, of course, so our florists are working safely behind the scenes to create flower arrangements for funeral bookings. 

We will not be opening our florists to the public just yet, so purchasing flowers on demand for special occasions will be something that we’ll offer again once the high streets reopen to the general public and day to day life returns to normality.


Funeral Attendance

What happens to the funeral service if I am displaying symptoms of coronavirus and cannot attend?

In line with current Government guidelines, if anyone due to attend the service is self-isolating, or suffering from coronavirus, they must not attend the funeral service.

Some crematoria are offering a webcasting and recording service for families so that any family members unable to attend the service can still be involved. Our colleagues will be able to discuss this with you.

Will I be able to have a church or graveside service?

There are several different local arrangements for places of worship being put in place.  Many of them are now placing restrictions on whether they will offer funeral services. Our colleagues will be able to confirm the details for you, based on your chosen service location.

How many people can attend the funeral service?

There should be no more than 10 people attending a funeral service.

Families must follow the Government guidance on social distancing, and everyone attending should sit at least two metres apart at this time.  

Many crematoria and places of worship are now limiting the number of mourners allowed at each funeral service. Our colleagues will be able to update you on the current advice for the location you choose.

Some crematoria are offering a webcasting and recording service for families so that any family members unable to attend the service can still be involved. Our colleagues will be able to discuss this with you. Ordering extra copies of the order of service is also a way of involving those who are not permitted to attend.

Watch our short video on how attending a funeral has changed.

If our chosen service location has decided to lower the number of people allowed at the funeral service, can this be overruled because of the Government guidance?

No. Unfortunately, this won’t be possible.

If your chosen service location has decided to lower the number of people allowed at the service, we ask families to respect this. We are unable to overrule them.

Some crematoria are offering a webcasting and recording service for families so that any family members unable to attend the service can still be involved. Our colleagues will be able to discuss this with you. Ordering extra copies of the order of service is also a way of involving those who are not permitted to attend.

Who can attend the funeral service?

There should be no more than 10 people attending a funeral service.

You cannot attend if you are in an at-risk group, or if you are self-isolating. Where a family contains more than 10 people who may wish to attend, you can limit this to the following family relationships:

  • Husband / Wife / Partner
  • Parents / Carers
  • Grandparents
  • Brothers / Sisters
  • Children

Not every family unit looks the same, so these are guidelines. You should agree attendance in advance as to which 10 members will attend.

Some crematoria are offering a webcasting and recording service for families so that any family members unable to attend the service can still be involved. Our colleagues will be able to discuss this with you. Ordering extra copies of the order of service is also a way of involving those who are not permitted to attend.

Families must follow the Government guidance on social distancing. Mourners who are not from the same household must sit at least two metres apart at this time. 

How do I make sure that I stay as safe as possible when I’m at the funeral of a loved one?

Families must follow the Government guidance on social distancing, and everyone attending should sit at least two metres apart at this time. 

We know that it is natural to hug or shake hands at a family gathering, but while the coronavirus affects day to day life, we ask that you do not hug or shake hands.  A smile or a nod to one another will still be meaningful and this supports social distancing.

For those not able to attend in person, some crematoria offer a webcasting and recording service, which enables family and friends to be still involved and to pay respect. Our colleagues will be able to discuss this with you. Ordering extra copies of the order of service is also a way of involving those who are not permitted to attend.

I was due to attend a funeral service, but I am not an immediate family member. Can I still go?

Please let the family member who organises the funeral make this decision.  They will be limited to inviting no more than 10 people. 

For those of you who are asked by the family not to attend the funeral in person, some crematoria offer a webcasting and recording service, which enables family and friends to be still involved and to pay respect. Our colleagues will be able to discuss this with you.

How will I know that the cremation has taken place if I have requested a Bretby Direct Unattended Funeral?

The colleague who helps you make the arrangements will let you know the time and date that the funeral of your loved one will take place.

Can you help me to plan and organise a memorial service at a later date?

Yes, of course.

We want to help you celebrate the life of your loved one. Please let us know when we make the funeral arrangements if you’d like us to support you with a memorial service later in the year.

Once we can hold a memorial service for your loved one, we will get in touch to help you plan a celebration of your loved one’s life and to involve those who were unable to attend the funeral and make them feel part of the service.

Watch our short video on how we can help with a fitting tribute.


Payments and Charges

Are you charging families that need to keep their loved one in your care if this is longer than usual?

No.  There is no reason to delay the organising of the funeral service, and we will do everything we can to help you arrange this in the same way we always would.  We aim to have the funeral date arranged for you within 7-10 days.

What happens if my funeral service gets cancelled?

Don’t worry. This is unlikely. If there are exceptional circumstances, we will contact you and let you know what needs to happen next. 

You will only pay for the services you receive.  If we must make any last-minute changes to the arrangements we have agreed with you, we will discuss this with you first. The coronavirus situation is continually changing, and we are doing everything we can to help our families and communities through this difficult time.

If for any reason a cancellation does happen, you will be refunded within 28 days for any services that you have paid for and that we have not been able to provide.

I’m having difficulties paying for the funeral. Can you help?

We fully understand that this is a difficult time for everyone financially.  We would say that it is likely that total funeral costs will be lower in some cases, as limousines, selected floral tributes, and receptions after the funeral are not currently available.

The Government has a scheme that can assist in meeting the cost of a funeral. To see if you are eligible, please visit:

https://www.gov.uk/funeral-payments


Funeral Plans

What happens If I have a Central England Co-operative Pre-Paid Plan that includes services you are not currently offering?

Your plan will still work the same, but there may be some services we are unable to offer.  If your loved one had a pre-arranged funeral plan with Central England Co-operative, which includes services which are no longer being offered, i.e. limousine, church service, flowers – we will offer to transfer funds to other products, such as a memorial tribute.

If these alternatives are not required, we will refund the value of these items to your family within 28 days, and one of our colleagues will be able to help organise this.

Watch our short video on how redeeming a funeral plan works.

Can I still buy a funeral plan?

Yes, you can still buy a funeral plan as usual.  Please contact our Funeral Planning team on 01543 421378 or contact your local funeral home. Our colleagues will be able to help you do this through our telephone appointment service.  You can find out more about our funeral plans by visiting www.prepaidfunerals.coop

Have you changed any of the plans you offer or charges for funeral plans due to coronavirus?

No, there are no changes to the plans that we offer or to the plan prices.  We have a range of suitable plans to meet different budgets and needs, in addition to a tailor-made plan option.

I’m having difficulties keeping up with my funeral plan instalments, can you help?

Yes. If you are having difficulty with a payment plan on a funeral plan, please contact us on 01543 223762 and we will help you to review your options.

Will my funeral plan be affected if I have coronavirus?

No, your plan will still be eligible if you pass away as a result of the coronavirus.

Your family can redeem your funeral plan in the same way as has always applied, but there may be some services we are unable to offer.  For example, in the current circumstances we are not able to offer limousines, church services, or flowers and we will offer to transfer funds paid for these items to other products, such as a memorial tribute.

If these alternatives are not required, we will discuss this with the person who has redeemed your funeral plan bond.

There are no medical questions or upper age limits that apply when purchasing a funeral plan.  Please call 01543 421378 or visit www.prepaidfunerals.coop


General

What has changed for funeral services since the coronavirus pandemic started?

We are still able to arrange funerals.  We are helping families to do this over the telephone, by email or by post. Some of our funeral homes can offer meetings via FaceTime or Skype as well.

When you speak to us, we’ll talk you through everything you need to know, including what we can and can’t currently include in a funeral arrangement, while the coronavirus is affecting day to day life.

What hasn’t changed is our ability to offer you, your family and your loved one the care and compassion that we have always done.

What extra measures are you putting in place at your premises to make sure it’s safe?

Where it’s necessary for you to visit one of our funeral homes, we are limiting this to no more than 2 people from the same household. Should either of you be displaying any coronavirus symptoms, then you must not attend.

Our colleagues are all practising the Government guidance on social distancing, and we need you to do the same if we have asked you to come into our premises. Hand sanitiser will be provided for your use on entering our premises.

We’re keeping everyone safe with more frequent, regular cleaning of the funeral home. Our hygiene standards are excellent, along with the way we carefully carry out our duties.

Since the coronavirus started to affect daily life, we have provided our colleagues with additional personal protective equipment (PPE). You may see some of our team wearing this, from when we come to collect your loved one, right up to the day of the funeral.   

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